Speechless.....

Sorry to all of my blog followers for not updating in a while... well I think the last time we left off I was talking to a handful of fellas... well lets be honest I am always talking to a handful of fellas! Well... After the whole ordeal with the construction man I decided to stop talking to all the men I was talking to and take some advice from my girls and just take what comes. Well I started talking to a new guy we will call him... Mr. mom.... Well Mr. Mom is coming off to be a dream come true... He has two children and takes care of them and owns his own home and is probably a great guy! Well... I have a couple hesitations.. 1. he is a father of two.... 2. He is thirty one. Well I kinda have a feeling what my friends would say... Cassie would say... Give him a chance you want a family man and to have kids and dont look at it that way... just let it flow.. things will come naturally.. Whit would say just because he has two kids does not mean thtat he is not a good guy, and jess would say.. well she would probably not say anything cuz she knows that more than likely it wont go very far, because i am to judgemental. I am not trying to be judgemental but I am.. with this guy its my goal not to be judgemental ... So long story short.... I guess we are haning out tomorrow... not really sure how this will go... wish me luck and I will have more to come in the morning. NIGHT NIGHT

Another one BITES the dust

So this evening was not very eventful. I went to a local bar with with some friends hoping that there were either men there or that one of the men in my world would like to go out! Yeah... that was a no go. So while I was at the bar I get a call from the construction man. Im pretty sure last wednesday we had the conversation that I would be moving on since I thought we were in two diffrent places in our lives and basically that i was not interested in more... That wasnt code for try harder. I mean who really wants a guy that watches ghost hunters for more than an episode. So hopefully after our conversation tonight he will have received the memo! So for now.. another one bites the dust! Who has suggestions.... Where should I start hanging out to find my prince charming????

I dont think MR. BIG gets it.....

So last night I decided that since the logistics broker man was at company dinner, we would not be meeting up for drinks. So I put on a movie and snuggled with my Bella,(Thats depressing). So Mr. Big decides to text me at 2:40 am to say hey what you doing? And Logistics Broker man decided to text me a 11:30 and say hey come over. What in the hell do these men think I want? Well I can tell you this... I dont want sex! Ya im sure sometime I will cuz we always have to test drive the car we buy, but what ever happened to old fashioned dating? Im really going to have to figure out something here really soon.... I hope you all have a day that is full of LOVE, JOY,and LAUGHTER!

Day one of blogging and a little background info!

I guess the real question is.. What in the heck am I looking for in a Man? Well first off he has to be a family guy, and needs to love my friends and I think I would like him to be tall, dark hair, and of course handsome. Jessica one of my friends says I look to find something wrong in a guy before I can like him! Well... I guess she might know what she is talking about since she sees it from the outside. So currently I am talking to a handful of men who will probably be blogged about. Last night while laying in bed I get a call from a guy im talking to we will label him as Mr. Big. Mr Big decided he wanted to go to a local bar and then call me a 2 in the am so that he could come over. I was sleeping and decided the only thing he wanted was a booty call... (Sorry Mr. Big im way over the booty call game!) So I guess thats the end of Mr. Big. I Also, started talking to a new man who I found on the plentyoffish.com. He seems to be a winner well I have to jet to find out if i am really going to have drinks with the new man... P.s. He is tall, Dark, and handsome. Not that thats all I am looking for... Any suggestions on what I need to be looking for?